It seems to be working.... sometimes #2

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Sandy,

Don't leave your H. He does not love her. She is just a thought. Set a new boundary - "no talking about the OW". Eventually, this fantasy will disappear. You, by listening, are helping him to keep it alive. Kill it now. In time, both of you will be all the better for it.

You know what they say, "that which does not kill us only makes us stronger".

He is home now. Isn't that what you wanted. Now, you should take the time to fine out what he wants and you become the fantasy. Let your imagination run wild... make him desire you and you alone. Have fun with it!!!

Also, get your H involved in church. Bible studies etc....

God has a way of healing our wounds.

Good Luck with the surgery!