Can you imagine what he will think if he knows the possibility exists that some other man could see your sons first steps or hear his first words? Right now, that thought may not exist, at least not to where he fully feels it as a possibility.
I think you have done an amazing job so far, really amazing! I love what you wrote earlier about leaving the rosy memories, the yummy meals, happy attitude, but then shutting the bakery - perhaps to reopen for a nother man to fill those shoes in his absence.
