Okay so here is what I notice.

She wants to hang out and when we do I reminds her of what she likes about me.

Now she is starting her new job and is going to be working nights for a while then into days and on Saturday.

Anyway there will be very little time together. Being in a new town our family is quite far away and realistically I (we) shouldn't plan "dates" together.

I think this confusion of hers may be in my advantage. Anyone have any suggestions on how to keep it moving forward?

Thanks