Gotta Keep Trying 2

[Kemper]

Focus on the time you have with your children creating lasting memories with them over the holidays. You have been at this long enough that you shouldn't have to endure the discussions of splitting up property during the holidays.

Wait until they are over, and instead be the you that YOU have become and enjoy the time. Having the discussions later shouldn't be an issue given how long you have been giving it your all.