Hmmmm . . . not sure what to advise regarding the man who is interested. I know what you mean about needing a soft place to land. How long does it take for divorce to be final where you live?
I just know from your posts what your convictions are and that you have been standing for your marriage. It ain't over til it's over and if you are worried at all about having another relationship during the divorce proceedings maybe you can explain to the guy you need to wait. If he is truly interested he would still be there later (or someone else!). I don't know, just my thoughts.
