WAW turning around? What now?

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In reviewing the last interaction with my wife I realized one more thing. She is still not emotionally over the OM. She cried a couple times when talking about him. Even though they were only together for a couple months she still has a lot of feelings for him and still believes that he was her soul mate.

This sort of leaves me in a crappy spot. She was dumped by him and now the dirt bag guy will be this idealized person for who knows how long. She never really even got to know him she just created this world in her imagination around him.

Hard to battle the fantasy she created in her mind. Maybe in time more reality will sink in and she will get it. It seems that is it is going to be a long ways off.