Papers have not been signed. But they are written out and agreed on. The IM has had a few life issues to deal with and I am taking things super slow. If she wants this quicker she can put the effort in. Which she has not. I think she thinks I will just do all the work. All she has to do is send me 1 piece of paper. The only effort I have seen her make is asking for her birth cert. so she can unassume my name and move out her clothes and shoes.
No effort at all.
Where I live you can wait one year for divorce or get it quicker if you proove adultry or abuse. I am going to let her serve me the papers.
Do I want a divorce.
Sigh. No. But she is gone. Life moves on.
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