Sorry to give you the wrong impression with my question! I was just clarifying!

I think you did a really good thing by validating WAH for loving them etc. I am such an advocate for kids being able to see both parents in divorce/separation situations.

Your communication was about the kids and you avoided put downs, guilt trips, talking about your R! well done IMO!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004