Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

I just realized something--it has been 11 months since I discovered the A. Maybe I could stick it out for another year.

What else would I be doing if we D'd? Dating aimlessly? Being with my son less? Everything else would be the same... working out, cooking, going to events, improving my housekeeping skills.

I just saw a post that referred to a woman who tried to date to make her WAH jealous and it backfired on her!

So now I am nervous about my plan to be mysterious! couldn't I still tell him I am going to a wine tasting party? the mystery is he doesn't know the people but he can be assured it's not a date.

????