OK, let me get this straight, she doesn't want to be married anymore, you moved out? why? Was this for atonement purposes, maybe if I move out, she'll love me again? BTW - that never EVER works. Now you know.
So you see your kids on saturday - wow nice! Do you like that? You pay the mortgage on the home where your wife & kids live and you don't live there. You pressed for a divorce but she didn't go for it.
You probably heard a few of these things correct me if I'm wrong: - I love you but I'm not in love with you - You should find someone else, don't wait for me - I don't want a relationship with anyone I just want some time to myself - I just need space - You're a good guy anyone girl will be lucky to have you
Sprinkled with a little: - cruelty - disrespect - spiteful, aggressive, hurtful actions on her part including using you but not reciprocating in the least - probably even tells you to stay away from the home on certain occasions
I'll add: - she probably doesn't have the children's interests as her top priority as she used to - she goes ALOT more - she stays out late - locks her cellphone - probably removed you from crackbook so you couldn't keep track of her status - she probably became more aggressive, assertive almost masculine in her actions towards you - while at the same time you became a little more feminine, softer, gentler, worried about the kids more when she started to slack
And on top of all of this you're really a NICE guy.
