Had a good evening with my son last night. Got something to eat, helped him with some homework, went shopping, and just did some goofing around with him. Dropped him off later went home and went for a run and a quick at home work out.
When I picked him up I was cheerful and upbeat with W. She asked about the changes she requested and I went through them with her with decisions. I determined when it was time to go, no lingering or waiting for her to end it. The local OM was sitting in his truck in the parking lot (where they both work) and I just ignored his presenced. She seemed a little down. This local OM is married with 3 kids.
And yes I know where he lives, his home number etc. Had to call in a favor with a local cop to run his license plates to determine.
Christmas will be tough on her with him. His family will come first. I did have a talk with him a while ago about them - he denied and lied. I've thought about telling his wife. I am of the school of thought at this point that it will blow up on its own and keep me out of the cross hairs. If I did at this point I would look like pursuing her. I'm not.
