How does one "flip the attraction switches?" What does this mean? Please explain.
E.g. on the external characteristics: If your H is a big breast man... start wearing padded bras and clothes that expose your cleavage.
E.g. on the internal characteristics: If your H gets turned on by humor... find jokes he'll like and share them. Ask him if he's heard any good ones and join in the laughter. Humor is an attraction switch.
You need to rack your brain and see what produced results in your R's history. Then slowly start reintroducing them into your dynamic.
Last edited by Gnosis; 12/08/0905:20 PM. Reason: Added last sentence
