Hi, Cutter bug,
just wanted to let you know that I found your thread/(life) and finished it from beginning to end! You were so smart to set lots of goals for yourself to get through this!

I am confused about something--did the two of you sign the separation papers yet? Are you required to separate before divorce? Do you want a divorce? I just ask because I think one of your posts said you were ready to be a WAS now. (But I know the roller coaster!)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004