You flop now she wins because she'll know she has you by the b@lls. It aint over until fat lady justice farts when the judge bangs the gavel.
Stick to your guns. It may be just what she needs to shake her head out her a$$. She's left you hanging and kept stringing you on for an entire year while she was having fun. Keep shaking the tree and creating crisis until she falls out of it and lands back on terra firma.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT