In my case, I believe that my marital breakup is more than just about me.
I completely agree with you as for my sitch too. I play a part in this problem, but I do not think this is even mostly about me. Can't be if I have become the person "only a fool would leave."
I have dropped the rope. Done. Don't want this current version of my W. I don't hate her and I'm not angry.
I will be completely focused on my kids and taking care of myself.
Thanks for your input man. Maybe we can get together and play some golf one day.