SO2...What are you DOING...I understand the needs and your feelings for him but not now, you know this...
No way is he ready to change, you still think he is drinking and doing the pills, when he gets them...
If you let him stay over Christmas eve you will sleep with him, and that's not good for either of you.
Know this I would like nothing more for you two to work things out but you've got to be stronger right now.
Trust me! I know! I have been beating myself up all morning. The affection. The words. The actions. I was weak.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
