Are you going to counseling for yourself right now? I would recommend that.
And I agree with the person who said she should have moved, not you. That "I don't want the marriage anymore" is a very poor excuse. What led up toa ll of this? Were you both fighting a lot? Tension? Elaborate.
By the time I moved out I'd been telling my H for months that things were bad and we were at an all-time low in our M/the worst they've ever been.
