Just a thought. I do agree that you should NOT talk to her until your head is in a better place than it sounds like it is today. However, the "chicken-and-the-egg" that you're going to be facing here is that I don't think you're going to GET to a significantly better place until you've DONE something about this. Men are typical "fixers" and don't do well sitting by passively, allowing our minds to run away from us.
Correct on both counts, Puppy. My head is not in a good place and I know it. Also right about the “fixing” thing. It’s VERY hard to know what is going on and not DO something about it NOW.
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