Move over... I 'm moving back......

[sandycay]

Hi all,

Just got back from a weekend away. On the down-low. An old high school BF friend has a condo a few states away and we met up with some old school people for fun times.

What a fun time. I met with people I haven't seen in 30 years and got to see my "crush" from middle school. He was my first kiss at a 7th grade dance. So fun I took old pictures from all of us that I had and it was great watching everyones reactions.

OSC (old school crush) is single and the father of (3) he had custody but they are now grown and he has a grand daughter. Plus he is still crush worthy. So will be staying in contact with him. *sighs*

I didn't share with H were I was going ..nor the kids... I didnt' want to put them in them in the middle

I guess it was a rough weekend for my son who was busy with HS activities and church activities this weekend... coincidence that both big weekends for both places.

Anyway, it seems my H told my son "I think something fishy is going on up at that church" "What is some PR!CK trying to become your father at that school or church"

Also, told my son the it was his job to clean the garage now. My H left it a mess when he left. It was clean the whole time he was gone the 1st time... and he got mad at son and made him walk to bus stop in the dark in 22 degrees with only mintues to get there. He is so hostile towards the boy. He also said "you just like being at that church because your not accountable for anything there"

uughghh S is an honor student ... a sophmore taking senior level classes... no electives... pre-cal, Honors english and world studies, Chemistry, Spanish 2, and health. He's an A/B student. He also swims on the VARSITY swim team although he is only a sophmore. He volunteers running the sound boatd for the children's ministrys at church and is active in his own youth group. Never been in trouble. All my adult friends, people at the church, his teachers have nothing but praise for this young man. He is always happy go lucky. He does have some issues in getting homework done but that's it.

Why does H seem to need to hate and berate him. It makes me so mad and sad.