I just wanted to wish you all Happy Holidays and to let you know how much reading this thread has helped me. I am also about 1 year post-bomb, on Dec 7th to be exact. My H is still at home, and seems to be taking tiny baby steps towards me, yet is still seeing the OW about twice a month that I can tell. Its been a terrible year, and yet he does seem more 'here' than last year. Hope that your holidays all go well. I too am wondering how this Christmas will be spent. For me is was always a time to spend with family, (usually his since they live here in town, mine are across country) and so far he doesn't want to see them at all. Debating on whether I should go alone (with probably lots of awkward questions) or try to plan a quiet day at home with us two (is that pressuring or pursueing?)
Hugs to you all dealing with MLC, I hope it gets easier.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
