Hi SoldierDad.

'If' there is another person involved, you better believe it's in your best interest to expose it and confront her...regardless of how bad it pisses her off. 'If' there is OM, then she's already doing it without guilt or remorse! 'If' there is OM, then she's already justifying it! If it turns out to be true, then you not exposing it and not confronting her will have no impact on her...that's for sure! 'If' she's cheating and lying, then you need to expose it and confront her with it NO MATTER WHAT! Stay strong. It might not be true anyway...but if it is...then MAN UP!


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.