The saying here is "accept 100% responsibility of your half of the marriage." Of course you didn't make her do anything, you are not responsible for her actions.
I would listen to the JAG and get civilian legal counsel about staying in your home. It might not be worth it.
Expect your wife to look at you like you have horns growing out of your head. (When she does think of me and smile because it will happen. )
It will seem like a bad dream and surreal at times. You are not going to believe this is happening. Stay aware - have all your senses on alert. Be in tune to the situation.
Mules went thru the gauntlet with his sitch and came out the other side standing tall.
I wrote this to myself to stay focused:
Wrote this in my journal on 08/26/08: Day of reflection and revelations. Not a new thought but it is for me. This crisis in my life is not what I want but it's what I have been dealt. It will be the defining moment of the middle of my life. So I have to play it the way a great man would. Be true to myself, love my kids, honor my marriage, continue to love my wife, take responsibiliy for me, be a warrior and honor the Creator.
Strength and Honor Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
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