Last night I found my state's bar lawyer referral service system. This morning I put in my request for a referral. Based on my sole income situation, it looks like I qualified for a referral to an atty where an initial complimentary 30 minute consultation would be given. The referral service gave me a local female atty. I called her office first thing this morning and have an appt for tomorrow morning.

When the lawyers secretary started asking me about the sitch and I started to explain that things had been peaceful between us while we are still living in the same house up until this weekend when H decided to bring his girlfriend to spend the night in our house. Secretary was SHOCKED and I broke down. Anyways, I'm just glad to be having the strength to be moving along in this process.


Me-34 XH-33 No Kids
We were M-12Y T-15Y
5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms
01/10 I filed for D / H moved out
09/16/10 Divorced