I can only think WAW brought up the incident as part of this larger MLC, self-examination of who she is, where she has been, and where she is going process she seems to be having. It was so dispassionate, so matter-of-fact, it was almost as if she had been talking about a movie. The words about the incident were scary; the delivery was terrifying (in retrospect)!
At this point, WAW is not considering reconciliation at all. I am the problem in her life, you see. Without me keeping her down, making her feel worthless, etc. she is fine, as she has said.
I am very concerned about her getting into IC as the mother of our S7 and S4. I realize it is out of scope, but I asked my attorney to see if her attorney would broach IC with her. My attempts to get her to IC have met complete failure. My attorney asked me if I thought this D initiation was part of a phase. I told her yes, because my MIL has said my WAW is in MLC in Sept. Of course, when I asked MIL to see if WAW would put D on hold until MLC was over, MIL said that WAW has to do "what makes her happy." No moral compass from MIL. No thoughts about responsibility.
The single Dad thing and being the adult is very challenging. Patience is hard to keep. Many hours, days, weeks, I just want the D to be done. I miss having my warm wife next to me on these cooold MT nights.
