The fear of the OM. Dude you are going to be worried about that alot. Remeber when you first got here, everyone said, "Time" Well yeah, with time this too will pass. Hell I still think about it...maybe once every couple of months. But my wife has been completely honest and I know it is just the fear that my own head produces.
I believe XW is being completely honest. What's missing is re-assurance for certain. I understand time will tell. I don't know, not having a good bout with that right now. Since I don't see her at all really, it's just so hard to keep out of my mind.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11