That happened to me early on in my sitch. It seemed to me that it was exactly what you said. She was looking for validation and justification to leave.

I think they hate limbo too. This may be their way of generating movement toward something other than limbo. I don't k ow if my W did the consciously but this process seems to fit pretty well with her actions.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.