Any thoughts about the incident as related in my previous post?
What prompted her to bring it up, after 17 years together?
I don't know what to think. It was obviously traumatic, and probably shaped things in your relationship in ways that you can't even begin to guess.
If you think that this disclosure is related to her current behavior, then I think asking her to go to counseling as part of any potential reconciliation would be wise.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement