Originally Posted By: njcbailey
Any thoughts about the incident as related in my previous post?


What prompted her to bring it up, after 17 years together?

I don't know what to think. It was obviously traumatic, and probably shaped things in your relationship in ways that you can't even begin to guess.

If you think that this disclosure is related to her current behavior, then I think asking her to go to counseling as part of any potential reconciliation would be wise.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."