-do you love him? I have feelings for him Frank, I wouldnt be doing this otherwise. Not easy to FEEL LOVE under all this hurt
-is he sincere and doing the work? If I thought he was sincere that would mean I trusted him right? And we know I dont. And I dont even trust my ability to tell if he is sincere or not. He is doing SOME work.
-does your marriage still have value to you? My M still has value to me, yes.
-if happiness comes from within ourselves, can YOU be happy with this man again? do you PREFER to be with him? I honestly dont know. Prefer to be with him? If I stay with him now, it will only be because I love him, I dont need him, we established that a long time ago, right? I am working on that last one still Frank...
