Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[TrentC]

I'm so ticked off!! I checked our visa account today and he charged stuff for himself within the last couple of days. We are "working together" to get bills paid and gifts purchased for Christmas and he goes out and spends money on himself!! It's like the rules continue to not apply to him.

If he can't be responsible for your joint credit card account, then close that account and get one in your own name.

Tell him he can do the same.