Is my Wife Cheating?

[Steady on course]

Sandi,

So...it didn’t matter much what your H did, or did not do? It's a crummy feeling when your partner is no longer part of you, and there is nothing you can do about it. I think I'm over the initial shock of the anger and betrayal.. it is what it is, or was. I guess I’ll quietly get my affairs in order and protect myself and the rest of the family. I know in my heart that despite the overtures of affection she is emotionally distant, although I don’t want to believe she is already too far gone. I am not sure if it's healthy for anyone to play the waiting game. I'll stick it out for a while, and play it day by day