Oh by the way, Divorce wise we are kind of at a standstill. I pressured her in the beginning to having one (when a mutual friend told me she wasn't looking for one), because she was claiming legal aid the made us take mediation. I went for my assessment meeting, and she went to hers, but my wife backed down when it came to the 3rd meeting which requires both parties to be present.
When I asked her about this via text she said 'I dont want to disclose finanical details' and 'would rather go straight for a divorce'. So the mediation has been cancelled and no futher news from her solicitor regarding taking things futher.
