I currently rent a nice house which allows me to have my children overnight on a Saturday. This is party for my benefit and also helps my wife as she works weekend nights. One thing I forgot to mention was she took 5 months off work when we broke up.
She has just booked to go on holiday with her friends to magaluf, a known destination for drinking/sexual flings. It is for a hen weekend, but the point is when we were together my wife would never leave the kids behind, but she has done it at least twice that I know of since we split.
I khave no real problems with her going out to enjoy herself (after all one of the reasons we broke up was due to me no socialising), but not at my expense. It seems the deposit for this holiday has been paid over the last few days and yet the half of the morgage money I was expecting is now over a week late. I am clueless in how to approach this as I dont want to destroy any chance of re-uniting, yet I cant let her treat me like a doormat.
I still love her, but I am trying to give the impression to mutual friends that I am happy and ok with everything. My family are not welcome in the marital home, except my father who still remains on good terms (but not in regular contact).
I have let her have the house, car and custody of the kids. I have no idea what to do next.
If you need to know anything else then just let me know :O)
