H: Huh? Me: Turn off your phone. Its vibrating? Like 2- 3 times. Why do you have your phone in bed anyway? H: [grumbles] It was ringing and I put in on silent mode. [checks phone - I can't see anything as I don't have glasses on]. Who would leave me 2 voice msgs? Me: guess you can find out later. Maybe it was one of your GF's (trying to joke).
Why would you joke about such a horrible thing??
Better: "Well, I'm sure it wouldn't be a girlfriend. Even you wouldn't do something so horribly disrespectful as to receive a text message from another woman while you were in bed with your wife. G'nite! "
Maple, I'm sorry you had to see that stuff. At least now you know what you're dealing with, and can make better decisions accordingly.
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