Lost, I'm sorry to say, but he is clearly cycling, your situation has only begun to work it's self out. With my XW, she cycled every 3-4 moths.

After 18 long grouling months of this, her A and our subsequent D, we are finally actually getting somewhere. It's a long, long process.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11