Thanks Gno, I actually have been following Britt's thread off and on. I will have to read the advice.

So after I posted last night, and was debating to check his phone more thoroughly, his phone rang 2x (approx 11:30pm). Must have been a sign for me to stop my snooping.

And then his phone vibrated 2 more times around midnight. By then, I had come back to bed. And woke him up to turn off his phone.

H: Huh?
Me: Turn off your phone. Its vibrating? Like 2- 3 times. Why do you have your phone in bed anyway?
H: [grumbles] It was ringing and I put in on silent mode. [checks phone - I can't see anything as I don't have glasses on]. Who would leave me 2 voice msgs?
Me: guess you can find out later. Maybe it was one of your GF's (trying to joke).

Just could not bite my tongue. Now I think about it, I have heard his phone ring late at night before.

Today's Priority #1 - keep my cool!
I will try.

My stomach has been in knots all night and have hardly slept.


Me: 42, H: 43
Daughters: 7,5
Together: 16 Married: 9
Jan 2010- Piecing
Fen 2013 ????