Thanks Gno, I actually have been following Britt's thread off and on. I will have to read the advice.
So after I posted last night, and was debating to check his phone more thoroughly, his phone rang 2x (approx 11:30pm). Must have been a sign for me to stop my snooping.
And then his phone vibrated 2 more times around midnight. By then, I had come back to bed. And woke him up to turn off his phone.
H: Huh? Me: Turn off your phone. Its vibrating? Like 2- 3 times. Why do you have your phone in bed anyway? H: [grumbles] It was ringing and I put in on silent mode. [checks phone - I can't see anything as I don't have glasses on]. Who would leave me 2 voice msgs? Me: guess you can find out later. Maybe it was one of your GF's (trying to joke).
Just could not bite my tongue. Now I think about it, I have heard his phone ring late at night before.
Today's Priority #1 - keep my cool! I will try.
My stomach has been in knots all night and have hardly slept.