Trent - no chemical imbalances here. I don't have depression issues or pms or anything like that.
I didn't either until my wife dropped the bomb on me.
The worst that can happen is that a doctor or therapist will agree with you and say you're just down.
Hey trent, one thing to realize is that when we have bombs dropped on us, most of us have a problem eating. When we don't eat, we cause ourselves to have a problem. If your body isn't getting the nutrients it needs to function, you going to be depressed! So the best thing to do is start focusing on what you are doing for your body to take care of it. and just like nutrition, if you don't exercise, get adequate sunlight, that can also do the same thing.
Another thing that can help is B12, and Niacin. And of course, faith.
But this is how I look at things, try to do things naturally first, and if nothing is working, then a last resort is drugs, for a temporary fix. Because the goal is to be well using yourself as the solution, and it is the best way, because your not relying on a crutch, but if all else fails, then a crutch can help get a person back on their feet, and then the goal will be to keep on your feet without the crutch.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Luv, we definitely won't give up on you! You just don't give up on yourself!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
wanted to let you know I got my sulking arse up and got on the treadmill - I took a shower and a friend came by and we went to dinner. I had a nice time. I went to the restaurant I've been wanting to go to with H.
H called me and I didn't answer. Checked vm and he was just saying he was back at his room and going to bed. I text him "im at dinner - love u - nite. I got no response. Whatever.
He comes in late tonight and I don't even want to see him. I've been sad but him not being around keeps me from feeling worse.
I want my H back (the real him) cuz I am done feeling sh*tty!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
wanted to let you know I got my sulking arse up and got on the treadmill
Weeeeeell... it's about time!
Originally Posted By: luvless
H called me and I didn't answer. Checked vm and he was just saying he was back at his room and going to bed. I text him "im at dinner - love u - nite. I got no response. Whatever.
Luv, you're persistent in thinking the worst of him, aren't you. If a man doesn't GAS he won't call you before he goes to bed. He could have been happy that you went out and were having dinner. Perhaps he didn't want to disturb you. Your text has a finality to it.
If you wanted a response from him you should have just texted him, "Sorry, missed your call. I'm out at dinner." If he didn't reply... then you can say he doesn't GAS... my bet is he would have probably like this. "Who with?" or "Where?" Girl, you need some lessons in text game.
Originally Posted By: luvless
He comes in late tonight and I don't even want to see him.
Then go to bed early.
Originally Posted By: luvless
I want my H back (the real him) cuz I am done feeling sh*tty!
Start showing him the real you. The one I know is full of life, smiling and happy.
wanted to let you know I got my sulking arse up and got on the treadmill
Weeeeeell... it's about time!
I had to...
Originally Posted By: luvless
H called me and I didn't answer. Checked vm and he was just saying he was back at his room and going to bed. I text him "im at dinner - love u - nite. I got no response. Whatever.
Luv, you're persistent in thinking the worst of him, aren't you. If a man doesn't GAS he won't call you before he goes to bed. He could have been happy that you went out and were having dinner. Perhaps he didn't want to disturb you. Your text has a finality to it.
I know but I think he just calls so he doesn't have to "hear it" later that he didn't - so GAS is up in the air.
If you wanted a response from him you should have just texted him, "Sorry, missed your call. I'm out at dinner." If he didn't reply... then you can say he doesn't GAS... my bet is he would have probably like this. "Who with?" or "Where?" Girl, you need some lessons in text game.
still listening G
Originally Posted By: luvless
He comes in late tonight and I don't even want to see him.
Then go to bed early.
I have go get him at airport tonight.
Originally Posted By: luvless
I want my H back (the real him) cuz I am done feeling sh*tty!
Start showing him the real you. The one I know is full of life, smiling and happy.
I know what I need to do it's just so damn hard. I am gonna give it a good try.
oh gawd...I need to learn to use this quote thing it's all messed up LOL
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M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
