cire....many of us are still here. It is hard to comment sometimes on the funny jokes and stories left here. We read them tho' and they lift our spirits.

The Hoyt clip you left here has left an indelible image in my mind and when things get tough, I think back to the video. So, you do make a difference. Newbies don't like to see those of us in the divorce process or in the 'losing battle' phase. It is a portant to their future for most.

As time goes on Eric, there is 'dropout' here...for all. The newbies come in and get their new supporters. The oldies here, like me, leave. The newbies prefer the never-ending hope...that their marriage will be saved. Sadly, the majority of us realize the denial that exists here in this forum and learn to move on when we are finished.

The main thing, I think, by being here....is to learn...and try to NOT repeat mistakes.

Strength and honor.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;