We've been together for over 3 years and married for about 1 of them. i can guess as to what is exact legal status is, i know that he is allowed in the united states but not legally allowed to work, he has ssn but still a citizen of mexico. i have not done any filings or anything with ins for him, so there is no issue with them.

i have stopped taking d2 to mil's all together so she is not a daily issue. she such hatred for me i'm sure she can not seperate the hate she has for me and care for her grandchild.

I would not say that him being the father of my children is anything great, i say this sarcastically with a snide laugh.

i love his sense of humor, dancing with him and at times he would help out at my school with the students.

miss about him, i don't think i'm missing him at this point in time. i'm still angry and hurt. probably why its good we don't speak for a while.

i thought last night and leaning towards sending him a letter of what one of my expectations are.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline