We've been together for over 3 years and married for about 1 of them. i can guess as to what is exact legal status is, i know that he is allowed in the united states but not legally allowed to work, he has ssn but still a citizen of mexico. i have not done any filings or anything with ins for him, so there is no issue with them.
i have stopped taking d2 to mil's all together so she is not a daily issue. she such hatred for me i'm sure she can not seperate the hate she has for me and care for her grandchild.
I would not say that him being the father of my children is anything great, i say this sarcastically with a snide laugh.
i love his sense of humor, dancing with him and at times he would help out at my school with the students.
miss about him, i don't think i'm missing him at this point in time. i'm still angry and hurt. probably why its good we don't speak for a while.
i thought last night and leaning towards sending him a letter of what one of my expectations are.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
i thought last night and leaning towards sending him a letter of what one of my expectations are.
Why?
Why are you pursuing?
Why are you trying to initiate R talk?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
When you do not support me and our children I feel angry and disrespected. We deserve respect and support, until I see genuine respect and support for us, I see no reason for you to be in our lives.
does this come across as relationship talk?
today's msg was all nice nice, hello jstar, how is your day?
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
I realize you're setting a boundary, but given the history you've described of being critical of him, why do you expect that he will receive this email any differently than any other time you've tried to discuss the relationship?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
how in the world can i word it without it being relationship talk?
You can't really make it not relationship talk. Why do you want to send it?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
since i've been silent give him an open to do something more then what he is. he' s under the impression i wish him dead. or should i just be silent and he can step on his own.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
since i've been silent give him an open to do something more then what he is.
He can do that himself.
Originally Posted By: Jstar
he' s under the impression i wish him dead.
So the next time he says (or implies that), set the record straight. You're disappointed in him and his actions, but you're willing to work on the R if and when he is ready to.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
