She is confused in as much as she knows it doesnt feel right, I am not saying that her emotions/gut feeling is incorrect but it its not straight either.
That's good. As strange as it may sound, one of the DB techniques is to keep her confused at her thinking of walking away. That is why you must continue to work on your own issues and show 180's to her.
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but more importantly to give her the feeling of success and independence. She has something to prove to herself.
I don't have time this morning to really get into this part....but it is common amoung women these days, when it use to be seen only in the men (and when the women were SAHM). She is looking at her job as what identifies her importance/self worth. Just as men have done for generations.....now women are doing the same.
I will finish this post later. There are several thngs I want to respond to. Didn't want you to think I was ignoring you. I do think you are going good, so keep the good work up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
