Ohhhhh, you did good, Sweetie! I think it helps you to hang on to your self-esteem instead of junking it like a lot of LBH's do.
The days you see her showing signs of her old self will bring those old emotions back for you. But you have the right thought patterns and are handling it perfect.
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My W told S9 that she knew that but she needs to see more of it before she comes home. Is she open to the possibility of reconciliation? I'll never mention it have to be patient and let her come to that decision in her time.
This is a flicker of hope. Don't allow it to control your actions or become obsessed with it.....but it is better than her telling him that the two of you will have separate lives from now own.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
