Thanks for your continuing support. Your advice is always welcome.
I did touch on MLC with my D19 as she found me looking at info. She promptly met her dad and asked him if he had it! He said he didn't know but if he had he had had it since he was 40. He has now extended the length of time he was unhappy in the marriage from 8 years to 12 years.
Consequently I try not to discuss it now as my daughters' advice was he's not coming back, he is very happy with OW and detaching from us! None of which I see but I didn't argue.
Yesterday my eldest daughter said he had done us a favour by moving out. Their relationship is very precarious. They used to be very close but she knew about OW before me and H even asked D21 to have coffee with them!
Men don't understand emotion do they. I realise the kids are hurting at the moment and they to are trying to put their lives back together.
