Ok... so tonight was the night the elusive cell phone was left in the bedroom while H was in the shower. I took a look. Did not have much time as he was almost done shower.
Phone call tonight at 7:23pm for just over 2 min to suspected ph#. (I was upstairs putting DDs to bed while he was downstairs on the computer at this time.) From suspected ph#: (10 incoming texts - not sure if all were from OW) A couple of “good morning” texts usually around 8:20 am. One happy face I am missing you or miss you text Another one something like - r u hungry /did you eat – want me to pick up dinner (should have noted the time/date) as it might of corresponded with his poker night. Only outgoing text to suspected ph# was “ok”.
My hands were shaking so bad and my heart was beating so loud, I wish I could remember it better or gone through it more thoroughly.
Gee I wonder why he did not try to kiss me good night tonight.
So now I know for sure it was just more than a casual aquaintance he might have had communication with. I sure as hell don't text my friends good morning and give happy face miss you texts.
Still don't know if it is EA or PA, but as it stands I feel betrayed, disappointed, sad.
I need help setting up the boundary/speech. And when should I do this? We have a “date night” planned for Saturday.
I need to calm down and relax so I can get some sleep tonight.
