Well, trust me, there is nothing concrete about D. All it does is legally sever the ties to your S but doesn't shut the door on anything. A premature D is even worse than limbo. It feels like a death sentence.

Just don't give yourself any deadlines.

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!