Do you mean the kids actually told WAH that they were angry that he abandoned them?
Have you read the threads on the Newcomer's forum? I just discovered it. And you can change the search funtion to go far back in time. I always search threads and read for inspiration.
Hang in there. Stay calm, stick to THINKING not reacting. Be strategic, not emotional. (((Daybyday))) Have you watched The Women yet?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004