Originally Posted By: pearlharbr


This is why I tell you to trust your gut. If you think there is OW either get some proof or move forward assuming there is one. This would entail setting a boundary with H that you will not be in an open marriage and if he is serious about recommitting to you then he will have no problem with implementing a transparency plan.


So how do you move forward assuming there is OW?

How do you set a boundary without proof of OW?

Last edited by maple gal; 12/08/09 04:42 AM.
Me: 42, H: 43
Daughters: 7,5
Together: 16 Married: 9
Jan 2010- Piecing
Fen 2013 ????