Originally Posted By: overburdened
Texts from tonight-

Her- "Do you want me to set the appointment with atty"
Me- " You know the answer to that"
Me- " Yes if you chose to"
Me- " Yes if affair is still going on"
Me- "Yes if you think sEperation is the answer"
Me- "No If you want to commit to working on your marriage"
Her- " I am listening to you and trying to figure it out"

Did I cross the line and give her to much info or did I reinforce my boundaries? I did send texts individually thinking they would be more effective.


Too much contact. I would have gone with:

Her- "Do you want me to set the appointment with atty"
Me- " Yes if affair is still going on, no If you want to commit to working on your marriage"


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."