Her- "Do you want me to set the appointment with atty" Me- " You know the answer to that" Me- " Yes if you chose to" Me- " Yes if affair is still going on" Me- "Yes if you think sEperation is the answer" Me- "No If you want to commit to working on your marriage" Her- " I am listening to you and trying to figure it out"
Did I cross the line and give her to much info or did I reinforce my boundaries? I did send texts individually thinking they would be more effective.
Too much contact. I would have gone with:
Her- "Do you want me to set the appointment with atty" Me- " Yes if affair is still going on, no If you want to commit to working on your marriage"
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement