So the L finally sees the light! (the light of Karen's brilliant kindness and shining ingenuousness [is that a word?]) ... after taking her for granted for so long. It would have been nice if she'd come around a little sooner, of course.

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The judge said basically everybody that's married nowadays has affairs and texts their OP during a failing marriage. He said only if he and OW had been fornicating in a room next to the kids would he consider that! Like there is not much moral fitness anymore, I guess he's saying....


If a judge presides over such a messed up legal system so long that they become that jaded, then perhaps it's long past time they step down -- don't you think? In fact, I'd say their judgment is pretty darn screwed up.

And he's an acquaintance of your H?

Long ago, I used to love watching L.A. Law, but now I want to take a shower every time I even think about L's and our so-called justice system. (Nothing personal to those out there in that profession, BTW.)


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.