Good for you to stand up and offer choices to your H. Now he gets to choose what reality he wants. Stand strong. This will push them together for the next while.
I am glad your starting to set the boundary. I will not tolerate an AFFAIR. Remember your marriage can survive H being angry. But it cannot survive as long as an active affair is going on.
Empty it all out. boxes and garbage bags. Drop them out the door if you feel up to it.
I have not posted before on your stitch. But I am following it.
