Had a great day sunday. Took S13 to see his friend perform in a play, and then to lunch for his favorite food. We had a great time. While we were gone, W had cooked an entire Thanksgiving meal. I gather that she must have missed doing it she gone. Nonetheless, she set it up as a buffet. She retreated to her room and didn't eat together.
Later that night, S13 found out that he had passed his band audition. Ever since our sitch started 6 weeks ago, he's poured his energy into improving himself. He was so worried about the result of the audition, and wanted to check the emails for the results every 30 minutes. I was so proud of him, and the results were just a bonus.
I'm still not sure about this direction I'm taking, but it doesn't really matter. I'm more detached and calmer. W doesn't seem to be doing well. Tonight she was supposed to goto D17's mandatory meeting about her upcoming band trip. I wanted to go, but W said it was her turn. The meeting was at 7pm. At 6:55, W was locked in her room. I had to knock several times to get a response. I'm presuming she had drank herself to sleep again. I told her I would go to the meeting, and then scrambled over there. 20-30 minutes later, she texted D17, and met her outside the meeting to drop of food for D17 and her boyfriend.
She's very stressed. I know she is meeting with the forensic accountant from her shark lawyer tomorrow.
I'll just continue to be patient, and work on my calm.
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